Persepsi Istri Ideal dalam Lirik Lagu Tarling "Istri apa Polisi" Karya Yoyo Suwaryo

The presence of feminism in the modern era, making some women are able to act like a man. A pragmatic attitude of modern women, it is not uncommon to carry into household life. These condition led to roles assessment of women and men began to shift. In modern household life, the male role as a husband and as the head of the household are often taken over by a woman who plays the wife in matters provide for the family. In the perspective of Pantura West Java society, an overview will be the ideal wife figure clearly expressed in their oral tradition like Tarling. Tarling is a musical art from Cirebon and Indramayu with the main musical instrument in the form of gitar (guitar) and suling (flute), so Tarling is acronym of the two musical instruments. Image of women as ideal wife figure are contained in the song lyrics Tarling entitled "Istri apa Polisi“ (Wife of Police) work of famous artist Tarling Yoyo Suwaryo. The analytical method used is a qualitative descriptive with formulation of the problem to be addressed in this study is how the image of an ideal wife figure in the lyrics Tarling "Istri apa Polisi". In this lyrics, ideal woman figure in society of Pantura West Java is a woman figure who is obedient to her husband, always pray for her husband, dutiful, patient, trust, faith, "qanaah" (optimistic), always "husnudzon" (positive thinking), and appreciate the husband with all heart.