The Meaning of It All

Abstract This book explains what we mean by “the meaning of life,” illuminates which kind of meaning is possible, which kind is impossible, and argues for how to orient our lives in light of these bittersweet truths. It clarifies the relationship between transience and meaning, providing new insight into the relationship between death, time, and meaning. Ultimate Meaning—the point of leading and living a life—is, sadly, impossible. Cosmic Meaning—the meaning of our role in the cosmos—is likely insignificant (even if god exists). However, Everyday Meaning—the meaning in our everyday life activities and pursuits—is often achievable, if you aim well (this book will tell you how). Although we all die in the end, this book explains why death doesn’t make life much more or less meaningful. Instead, it is time, and not death, that is both necessary for meaning yet undermining of meaning. Most advice for how to reduce the agony of time’s erosions cannot work. However, we can tease out some insights from failed attempts to escape time’s wounds and thereby make progress toward coping with things as they are. A meaningful life is one lived in the fullness of time, accepting suffering, acknowledging our tragic losses and limitations, and making the most of Everyday Meaning. This witty, poignant work sheds light on the role that value, religion, the cosmos, death, and time play in the meaning of our lives, and how best to live a meaningful, mortal life in time.