HOW YOUNG GIRLS IN THE 1840' S SHOULD BEHAVE WHEN SICK ACCORDING TO MRS. SIGOURNEY

Mrs. Sigourney, of Hartford, Connecticut, was a prolific writer of school and childrne's books during the first half of the nineteenth century. All of her writings seem terribly "preachy" today, but in her time she was noted for her progressive attitudes toward the rearing of children. A good example of her style of writing and advice to young children is the following. When you are seriously sick, give yourself up entirely to those who have the care of you. Take without objection whatever they bring you, however unpleasant to the taste. Sickness is not a time to gratify the palate, but to learn patience. Thank those who perform any service for you, however small. Do not add to their fatigue any more than you can help. If you have watchers, urge them to take refreshment in the course of the night, and, if possible, to get some repose. These attentions are pleasant to those who nurse you and help to turn your thoughts from self, for selfishness is too prone to introduce into the chamber of sickness. Consider your physician as your friend. Tell him frankly all he asks, and submit to his remedies without opposition. Open your mind to cheering thoughts, and keep your heart full of hope, for they promote recovery. Spread your case before the great physician, and ask his blessing on every remedy. When you are well again, remember that you are under a renewed weight of gratitude to him, and to those who have watched over you, and shown you kindness, and from your own sufferings learn to pity others who suffer.1