William Stout

William Stout, a Lancaster ironmonger, was a Quaker and a lifelong bachelor. He and his sister and non-Quaker brothers represent a striking example of sibling support and harmonious interdependence. Most decisions by family members were taken collectively, after much discussion. William’s sister acted for many years as his housekeeper and assistant, and they boarded several young nephews and nieces in succession. The siblings and their widowed mother cooperated amicably, and William was often willing to defer to their wishes. Highly successful in business, he used his wealth to support his brother’s children and grandchildren. But relationships with the next generation proved more tricky, with their gratitude tempered by resentment at their dependence.